Rosemary Nyandua’s Journey From Alcoholism to Sobriety and Empowerment
NJORO SUB-COUNTY — At the age of 22, Rosemary Nyandua never anticipated that her casual encounter with alcohol would spiral into an eight-year struggle with addiction. Today, at 30, Nyandua openly shares her journey from the depths of alcoholism to her current state of sobriety and confidence, offering hope to others facing similar battles.
According to Kenya News Agency, her descent into alcoholism was marked by a loss of control, as she found herself engaging in destructive behaviors to sustain her addiction. The consequence was not only the loss of personal assets to shylocks but also the alienation from her family and friends. Her relationship with her children suffered, and she often found herself exploited due to her vulnerability.
Nyandua’s turning point came with her decision to seek help, leading her to the Beyond Love Rehabilitation Centre in Njoro Sub-County. There, she underwent a 12-step recovery program alongside seven men, making her the only woman in the group. The rehabilitation process not only focused on overcoming addiction but also equipped her with vocational skills such as interior design and electrical installation, preparing her for reintegration into society.
Now, with over 100 days of sobriety, Nyandua is a testament to the transformative power of recovery. She is determined to rebuild her life, focusing on providing love and attention to her children and repairing relationships with her family. Her experience underscores the challenges faced by women in dealing with alcoholism, particularly within African cultures where female drinking is heavily stigmatized.
Dr. Agnes Mwihaki, a psychiatrist at the rehabilitation center, emphasizes the importance of a compassionate and non-judgmental approach in supporting individuals battling alcoholism. She advises families to encourage open discussions about the underlying reasons for alcohol abuse, such as stress or anxiety, rather than resorting to ultimatums or shame.
The National Authority for the Campaign Against Alcohol and Drug Abuse (NACADA) reports a concerning rise in drug and substance abuse among Kenyans aged 15-65, with alcohol identified as the most abused substance. The increase in alcohol consumption is attributed to the availability of cheaper alternatives and the challenges posed by online sales and mobile transfer services.
Nyandua’s story sheds light on the broader issue of alcoholism in Kenya, highlighting the need for increased access to treatment and rehabilitation services. Samuel Wanjiru, a peer counsellor, calls on government and non-governmental organizations to prioritize programs that address alcoholism and substance abuse, emphasizing the potential for recovery and the importance of societal support in overcoming addiction.
As Nyandua looks forward to opening a salon and boutique business, her journey from addiction to sobriety serves as a beacon of hope for many, demonstrating that recovery is possible and that a new chapter in life can begin with the right support and determination.